Friday, February 12, 2010

BUSted

recently, i am fond of riding buses.

i love how it slows down time. how it tells so much about life in and outside of it, about people that ride and pass by. and of course, about me sitting alone in my cold seat.

how an old, fragile and petite woman, probably in his late 40s, can be so freakingly frightening as she argues with the bus conductor over a peso or two during the entire trip. how men nowadays, redefine chivalry by just remaining seated right beside a lady standing. while whispering the words "women empowerment" over and over again. how even i could also be surprised realizing that i've hold on to my bus tickets 'til i dropped on my destination. probably the longest thing i have kept so far.

then suddenly the bus stopped.

a guy in his early 20s climbed inside the bus and struggled his way along the moving aisle. despite the sunlight behind him, you could still see how the movement of his eyes struggled in making a decision of what to take. typical, but not on situations like this.

then he saw this other fellow, sitting in front of me, and their gaze met. as if they were trying to recall where they have seen or if they know each other. but no one actually gestured or said a word.

the guy took the empty seat across the other fellow and still exchanging glances. for a moment, the guy would look away. while the other would try pretending he was looking at something or someone else. then again, their eyes would meet.

suddenly, the guy pulled out his mobile phone. now, this is something familiar. then the other would pull out his too. now, its only a matter of minutes before something will be confirmed.

public pick ups/hook ups are the things that always amazes me. how can someone make that huge and indefinite risk without the fear of its possible consequences? where do they pull out that courage? how can they be so sure? or is there a manual for this that i have missed?

i always wanted to try it. but never really have the guts to do it; not even the motives. its just plain curiosity with some excitement embellished on it, i admit.

then the guy shouted "para po!" as we were fast approaching techno hub. when he stood up, he made a last glimpse to the other fellow, who i've heard earlier would be dropping off in city hall. i swear i saw an exchange of brief smiles.

later on, the guy will receive a message, asking for his name and age.

the other fellow would reply back with, "who is this?" although he was already expecting it.

"the guy in the bus." it briefly reads.

"hey whats up. im adrian, 24. you?"

"cool. james, 23. do you have a place?"

"of course i do." (but isn't he going to ask what does the other party do, or some brief profiles, or if he has some serial killer tendencies?)

"can i drop by your place later?"

like the bus, the ride of the conversation was too fast that made everyone confused of where to call for a halt. scared of either missing their destination or dropping off way too far.

"no, i dont think so. but it was nice knowing you."

then the guy sent a couple of messages more. but "I" no longer made any response to any of it anymore.

call it curiosity, boredom or just plain power tripping. but there was something in me that moment that made me pull my cellphone too. i turned my bluetooth on and quickly reedit my device name to "0917 (my number)." and if my instincts were correct, it was that fellow in front who bit my bait.

its funny how our resourcefulness, regardless of how petty it is, proves how many of us device ways and send means across to others without any direct communication. as if we are indeed thinking alike. how our repressions blur out our rationality as well as our hesitations and creates a common psyche.

but i guess, in this case, its all a matter of motives and outlook differences. something that i should have not meddled into in the first place. but although i knew it was coming, i still didn't regret it. for i know i will still continue riding buses until i finally reach my own destination.

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

Akala ko ang bluetooth name mo ay... blue shirt, cap, california. Nyahahaha!

- santino santita

line of flight said...

has nothing to do with courage and everything with youthful exuberance (and perhaps folly)

paci said...

a round of applause!!!
okay yun an!!!

Padsiefoot said...

"how men nowadays, redefine chivalry by just remaining seated right beside a lady standing."

Chivalry is long dead. It died when one beauty pageant contestant first told the world that what men can do, they can, too.

Anyway...

Ma-try nga gawin yang Bluetooth trick mo this weekend.

HAHAHA!!!!

Anonymous said...

@santino santita


PAKYU KAH!

hahahaha


- sugar

wanderingcommuter said...

santino santita at sugar: kunyari na lang hidni ko kayo kilala! nyahahaha

lof: i guess..

paci: thanks!

padsifoot: i know you will... mukhang magiging regular ka na ng isang bar sa makati ah?!

engel said...

i like bus rides too. they're a good source of things to write.

although i don't think i'll ever have the courage to pull up a stunt like what adrian and james did.

Victor Gregor said...

Even if you have not told me the story before I read this, I still would have anticipated the turning point where I will eventually read these words:

"then suddenly the bus stopped. a guy in his early 20s climbed inside the bus and struggled his way along the moving aisle."

LOL.

rudeboy said...

They're still doing that Bluetooth pickup thingy, I see.

Herbs D. said...

thank you for showing me the way of picking up people in public as discreetly as possible! i owe you one :D

oh, and about the chivalry part. im a feminist, so i think they can pretty much do the same thing as everybody else. diba? yun naman hinahanap nila eh.

Elias Jayson said...

wohohoy! ambilis magkoment ah. :D
kamusta?


+++
i think we are getting wrong with the idea of feminism. :)

haha. oh well, you know what i mean. haay. pero i feel the guilt in here, i always see college boys and even pros in lrt who do not mind if the person in front of them is struggling to keep balance.

line of flight said...

without that kind of exuberance and folly, we would have no heroes. its that youthful folly that precedes all social and cultural change. bluetooth away!

Kane said...

Wandering Commuter,

If public pick-ups amaze you, I wonder what you think about public hook-ups? =)

Maxwell Flux said...

i like long bus rides too. it makes my mind wander and it's therapeutic too.

about public hookups, tried that celphone thing before, risky but very rewarding i must say. the thrill of not knowing if he'll take it or not is the highlight of the said gamble. it happens so fast, the next thing you know, you're already on your destination.

citybuoy said...

you've always found stuff like this very interesting. i recall your very animated discussion of gateway hookers. haha

iurico said...

ah ganito pala ang nangyayari pagnilalabas ang phone ng dalawang nagtitinginan at nagpapakiramdaman. haha

bunwich said...

had the same experience... this time a guy with his girlfriend is trying to give his number secretly. here's the link: http://siopaobunwich.blogspot.com/2009/11/awkward-moment-ep1-bus.html

Chyng said...

"i always wanted to try it. but never really have the guts to do it; not even the motives."

weh?! ako nga na-try ko na, ikaw di pa. hihi

lagi kasi ako napipick-up so for a change, ako yung nag-initiate. power ego! ♥

Yj said...

didn't i tell you about that "bluetoothing" thing in Mcdonalds E.Rod right after the Phil. Blog Award?

ang mga bluetooth name ba naman eh "fuckmequick" at "seveninchesoneball"

hahahaha naloka lang ako sa pangalawa, parang bilyar lang...

ghwace said...

"i Like..." --->> how even i could also be surprised realizing that i've hold on to my bus tickets 'til i dropped on my destination. probably the longest thing i have kept so far.

lovely thoughts.
thanks for sharing.
Ma try nga ang bluetooth thing. Ahihihi. :))

Brent a.k.a. yourkidatheart said...

If there's a will, there's a way they say. :)