Saturday, May 1, 2010

mr. what-is-love?

*kanina bigla ko naalala may email address pala ako na wanderingcommuter@live.com. i opened it up and huwala... ayan sila! then i thought since wala pa din naman akong maisulat at gusto ko ding makiuso... i decided to try this one. nyahahaha!


i know this would come as a surprise to you
me sending an email to you
ive read your post and would like to ask,
ano nga ba ang love?
yeah, this would sound silly, kaya nga i took some courage to email you sir.
actually, alam mo ba, tinamaan ako dito sa mga lines na ito
"some say, you have to be rigorous and never lose hope in finding him/her. thus, one put him/herself in this what seemed to be an endless pile of date buffet. doing ocular inspections, sorting out the enticing, interesting and attracting one from the nots. then try if it will suit one's pallete and if it will even last.

while some argues that you just have to wait for that invisible hand or that wheel of fate to place it infront of you.

but personally, i would rather go with the former rather than depening on the latter and miss and regret something that i haven't done a thing. you see, i want to believe that i could be so clueless and insensitive sometimes--- alright, make it most of the time..."

madami na rin ang nagsabi sa akin na the right one would come (after all the failures in the love department), pero i believe wala namang masama kung magsearch di ba? sana nga in time all of us would get to find that person na sinasabi nilang 'kapartner' natin...hopefully, id get to find my own eros in the right time

***

well, there is actually no exact formula nor definition for love (as cliche as it may sound). because if it has then love would no longer love. i believe love is a universal concept but with limitless definitions depening and varying from who will actually define it.

i guess, some are just lucky enough to find what they are looking for. while others find theres without even looking at all. personally, i find it way better if you try to love yourself first. know who you really are, what you really like and what you are capable of and worth.

most of the time its not really our appearance that matters to people since physical impressions are just as lasting as passing chocolate drizzle. its actually how you build yourself and carry it to others that makes them attracted to you. but you have to do it as subtle as possible, to avoid getting the impression your flaunting it or pushing yourself too much to other people.

think of it as a game, a hunt where the prey will never feel they are being hunted and you as a hunter that no one will even know.

but if all things fail, just always remember that if that person comes and its worth the wait, then you just have to bear it at least for now.

bow!

8 comments:

Knoxxy said...

Nice analogy. :)

chyng said...

wow may fan mail ka!
bakit isa lang shinare mo, i know madami yan! come on! Ü

ןıuǝ oɟ ɟןıƃɥʇ said...

now that that is clear...

Carabrant said...

Hi Wiwik. Na-miss kita.

"if that person comes and its worth the wait, then you just have to bear it at least for now."

Thank you for this. :)

wanderingcommuter said...

knoxxy: thanks!

chyng: compare naman sa fan mail mo, walang wala ang akin!

line of flight: hehehe...

carabrant: i know right! kelan tayo ulit magkikita?! hahaha

Carabrant said...

Text text. Kasi naman nagpapanggap na busy! Walang busy busy sa food trip!

♥N said...

... i find it way better if you try to love yourself first.

You're so right about that, Ewik. I never really understood that in the past, but now I understand it so clearly. There's no way you can really love another until you first learn to love yourself.

Great post, as usual.

iurico said...

"i believe love is a universal concept but with limitless definitions depening and varying from who will actually define it."

Very well said, contestant number 1.