Thursday, March 19, 2009

confessions

you commit yourself in a relationship, you simply commit because you love the person for s/he is. nothing less, nothing more. when you find yourself holding his/her hand, you tend to let him/her know that you are willing to compromise your differences. and by the time you kiss each other lips, you are bound to do the best of what you can for the relationship to work.
but just like a friend, once told me, it is not as simple as that. committing is not always as easy as 1+1 nor as sweet as a jam in a jar. sometimes you encounter difficulties and problems to strengthen your ties between each other, for you to appreciate the value of what you have and in order for you to have the drive to fight for it.
but i think, having this in mind tends to make us complicate things a stitch further. for me, loving is already a complicated thing and complicating your relationship is a little bit too much already. the mere task of determining whether you love a person or not is already an act of finding a needle in a haystack and the risk involves in saying your committing, in holding someone's hand or kissing, is already an indication that you are opening yourself from either being happier or getting hurt.
i say, you just have to live loving someone by the moment. never look back from the past nor be scared of the future. you just have to feel every inch of it and make sure that you do not miss a minute detail. you can even take it the way you want, the way it would suit you. you could take it slowly or abruptly, your choice.
but before anything else, you need to look for him/her first.



*habang wala pang nag-eemo lately.

11 comments:

Najua Scribbles said...

eh pano kung nahanap ka na ng matagal mo ng hinahanap?

:p

wala lang..

panggulo lang.

\m/

the geek said...

everything has risks involved.

Herbs D. said...

compromising with each other can be quite hard, understanding each other is one of those steps to break the ice.

so true, love already is so difficult. me and my boy really try hard not to have something to fight about. as long as we're both happy in each other's arm. as long as we make each other's heart smile.

im happy na :D

Mugen said...

The question is, did it work for you? ^_^

Rain Darwin said...

wow, pwede ka namaing gawing love advisor hehehe.

Yj said...

shet kanina lang nagdesisyon na ako na itigil na ang kahibangan ko.....

pero nagbago na isip ko... hahahahaha

wanderingcommuter said...

hahahaha...


are you trying to imply something, kuya joms? nyahahaha!

wag masyadong personalan. hahaha

rain darwin: naku! baka langgamin ako sa inyo niyan ni lukayo. baka hindi ko kayo kayanin! nyahahaha

Jinjiruks said...

sorry ka. matagal na akong emo sa mga post ko. ahehe. hanggang kailan ba maghahanap? habang buhay na lang ba?

Chyng said...

Acdg sa text ng friend nateng "tatakbulakenyo"

Happiness is either you lower your expectations; or improve reality!

It owrks for me! :D

Luis Batchoy said...

relationships are hard work... even the one you are having with yourself, and much as most people fantasize and think they can and they have what it takes, the sad truth is that they are not and they do not have what it takes. NEGA? hehehehehe

gillboard said...

i agree sa lahat ng sinabi... lalo na sa huli... hehehe