tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post7539876754621823688..comments2024-02-25T17:53:46.030+11:00Comments on wandering commuter: outside the circle: the crossdresser (part2)wanderingcommuterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-3562110402398291742008-08-01T01:58:00.000+10:002008-08-01T01:58:00.000+10:00i agree with informaxona... parang doon patungo. h...i agree with informaxona... parang doon patungo. hahaha.<BR/><BR/>ako naman sanay na sanay na ko sa mga dalagang pilipina. high school pa lang, sila na mga kasama ko. as in ung nag foundation na may press powder pa. nablog ko na nga sila na babaeng babae na sila.<BR/><BR/>i would have become one of them (not that it's bad) if I haven't studied at dlsu. nasa ust sila lahat.ikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08684936352480033029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-37424648631599702932008-07-22T22:30:00.000+10:002008-07-22T22:30:00.000+10:00crossdressing? it's not a disorder, it's a phenome...crossdressing? it's not a disorder, it's a phenomenon. heheheTriphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16734719409544241452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-50966093679789067492008-07-22T01:51:00.000+10:002008-07-22T01:51:00.000+10:00i love this post. and i like the way you admitted ...i love this post. and i like the way you admitted those thoughts of yours "against" crossdressers are wrong. maybe i should reorganize my thought too before i label others.<BR/><BR/>respeto! <BR/>sino ba ayaw mabuhay ng normal? (--,)Chynghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05995626593256040769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-80401924910378850082008-07-21T22:53:00.000+10:002008-07-21T22:53:00.000+10:00informaxoma: hahaha. definitely not. i value my fr...informaxoma: hahaha. definitely not. i value my friends more than have them as a partner. it sjust too risk to maintain the friendship that you have built once the romantic relationship has been destroyed. <BR/>nonetheless, its nice to hear that you have your partner regardless of her gender, sex, preference and prhysical attributes. my salute to you, girl!!!<BR/> <BR/>mugen: its one hell of a experience, kuya joms. but just don't ALWAYS expect that they are all the same, because from the looks of it. some or people, even they are bloggers like us. happen to be still caged in the general picture of what a cross dresser is. and i am also itching to read that story of yours.<BR/> <BR/>bino: i really appreciate your honesty and courage to go away with the usual trend that most bloggers have, which are also against the general norm. and you know, thats what keeps me going back to your post. you tend to be the antagonist that makes the issue more interesting. kudos!<BR/>nonetheless, let me emphasize some points: first, i think we need to set first the premise to better tackle the subject. like most people, regardless of sex or gender, we should never generalize a group of people. the very definition of human itself, will already tell us that all of us our unique in our own ways. no two people are exactly the like. thus, we could not blame the eniter group because of the mistake of one or two or more. and it will also apply it the other way around.<BR/>second, crossdressing is actually a rational thing. its what we call preferences brought about by one's life descisions.<BR/>thridly, probably you already know, how i am against with psychology as a school of thought that discusses issues of gender. as i've mentioned before, on my opinion, psychology is so rigid that they tend to label almost everything that comes into human behavior and mentality as a disorder. even having a lucky pen is a disorder ayt? in addition, they also generalize and has the tendency to sensationalize results from individual subjects as the subject of the whole society. thus, i like sociology more than psychology in tackling it. <BR/> <BR/>gillboard: go ahead dude, keep me posted about the list. i bet you'll not regret it!<BR/> <BR/>mel: probably you can blame it to the psychologist who have pioneered the concept of its disorder, specifically those who are working for the American Psychiatric Association. but come to think of it, as i've mentioned as well to gino, in reality, we could not deny that there are also cross dressers who offends other people, acting upon it INDIVIDUALLY (this being the operative word) and probably this is what gino is specefically referring at. nonetheless, we should all know that such acts are not exclusive to cross dressesrs alone. it could apply to all people regardless of class or group.<BR/>jericho: exactly! what we wear should NEVER EVER justify what we are as an individual or even as a group.<BR/> <BR/>joaqui: i could not agree you more. i am really happy that in a way, it assured me that i am sending my message effectively... thanks dude!<BR/> <BR/>bogs: or probably pareho din tayo nag gegeneralize? <BR/>but just for the sake of me defending myself, i wrote this on my context. and just like what you have said its his personality and not his crossdressing that i like about him and this is exactly what i want to relay to my readers. it should always be the personality that every individual should loo kat towards them and not their preferences or what they wear.<BR/> <BR/>mugen: and just to tag along what you've said: these "people" are not exclusive under one groups alone. they are present to all. but in a different perspective, you actually have a a very good point, on that ANGLE. <BR/> <BR/>white: natumbok mo yun ang sum up ng lahat!!!<BR/> <BR/>lance: sad naman nun... oh well its your preference. hopefully, they would treat you the other way around, dude. <BR/> <BR/>dabo: naku, naka comment si dabo. well we already talked about it. so what else can i say? ayt?!<BR/>"people are afraid of things they never know... you guys thought you know enough"<BR/>but i love this line, it basically said a lot of things.<BR/> <BR/>mugen: well there's no absolute truth. so we also can't make claims. hahaha.<BR/> <BR/>(para lang sabihin nilang hindi kita kinakampihan dahil friends tayo---hahaha).<BR/><BR/>fiona: hehehe. i think everyone deserves to know my opinion, not because i am all-knowing. but more of to give them another person's thoughts...hehehewanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-36166292342454380102008-07-21T22:16:00.000+10:002008-07-21T22:16:00.000+10:00thanks for this post erik. i love you na.it makes ...thanks for this post erik. i love you na.<BR/><BR/>it makes me sick that some people are so self righteous.<BR/><BR/>I'm not sure if they have read this part: person should not be judged by how they look, what they wear and what their preferences are.PrincheCHA Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09937591982604092939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-37961867926801159872008-07-21T18:36:00.000+10:002008-07-21T18:36:00.000+10:00ang serious naman ni dabo.. chillax kalang dude......ang serious naman ni dabo.. chillax kalang dude...Kape Kanlaon\https://www.blogger.com/profile/07648396910252239953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-52761801779468560412008-07-21T16:53:00.000+10:002008-07-21T16:53:00.000+10:00Dabo: That is why being observant and not judging...Dabo: That is why being observant and not judging people based on their appearance or background alone makes someone... <BR/><BR/>profoundly wiser in life. :).https://www.blogger.com/profile/12914651755857714903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-59394050714935572352008-07-21T13:55:00.000+10:002008-07-21T13:55:00.000+10:00people are afraid of things they never know... you...people are afraid of things they never know... you guys thought you know enough.. tsk tsk tsk..Dabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14821346444853927056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-20472528007242563452008-07-21T13:53:00.000+10:002008-07-21T13:53:00.000+10:00bino/geno: at least you have used "liked" at hindi...bino/geno: <BR/><BR/>at least you have used "liked" at hindi hate. <BR/><BR/><BR/>"It takes one rotten tomato to destroy the whole cart."<BR/><BR/>Dahling,you should have never applied that analogy. Your statement made this world an inch lonelier.<BR/><BR/>lance: hating someone for being awkward.. wow.. that is really, well, awkward.Dabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14821346444853927056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-55569660427823542802008-07-21T12:56:00.000+10:002008-07-21T12:56:00.000+10:00evryone is entilted to it's own opinion.. yun lang...evryone is entilted to it's own opinion.. <BR/><BR/>yun lang..Dabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14821346444853927056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-49188625900427307672008-07-21T12:32:00.000+10:002008-07-21T12:32:00.000+10:00ahahah.. no comment.. showing up myself in this po...ahahah.. no comment.. showing up myself in this post just for the heck of it.. 'never miss a post'...hehehe <BR/>but really, me too, i hate gays/lesbians who are crossdressers. especially lesbians. it's so damn awkward. but sa kanila naman un eh. ewan.. heheheKape Kanlaon\https://www.blogger.com/profile/07648396910252239953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-13511382814077744582008-07-21T12:24:00.000+10:002008-07-21T12:24:00.000+10:00walang masama sa pagiging totoo sa sarili as long ...walang masama sa pagiging totoo sa sarili as long as walang inaapakang ibang tao.<BR/><BR/>:)Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10355541313324368242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-37826297471364605682008-07-21T03:02:00.000+10:002008-07-21T03:02:00.000+10:00Bino/Geno: Actually dude, the ones I should be ver...Bino/Geno: Actually dude, the ones I should be very embarrassed with are the gays who take advantage of other men. Sila yung mga balahurang nangangapa sa jeep o kaya gumagawa ng milagro in public. <BR/><BR/>I have high respects for cross dressers because of all the homosexuals, they're the ones who bear the brunt of the discrimination that happens to people like us..https://www.blogger.com/profile/12914651755857714903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-91396405895652003712008-07-21T01:53:00.000+10:002008-07-21T01:53:00.000+10:00Mejo naggeneralize ka lang cguro sa crossdressers....Mejo naggeneralize ka lang cguro sa crossdressers. You just met the kind witty one. Pero kung mahadera at mapanlait yung nameet mo e i doubt na masusulat mo lahat ng ito. It's his personality you liked and not his crossdressing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-11322651047722066892008-07-21T01:49:00.000+10:002008-07-21T01:49:00.000+10:00It's so true that more often than not, the discrim...It's so true that more often than not, the discrimination comes from fellow homos and not from the hetero crowd. Some people just seem to think that the way they hide/flaunt homosexuality is better than the other and it's sad. At the end of the day, we just want to be happy and people should just learn to respect what paths others chose to be happy.Joaquihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03463745078282630829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-68913440165328705232008-07-20T02:00:00.000+10:002008-07-20T02:00:00.000+10:00everything boils down to respect. right? everyon...everything boils down to respect. right? <BR/>everyone is entitled to be respected regardless of his/her culture, lifestyle and practices. Nice that you are open minded and you accept and respect other's preference.KRIS JASPERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02044837069428023710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-5391810904981483502008-07-20T01:25:00.000+10:002008-07-20T01:25:00.000+10:00what's in a dress anyway. cheers to you mel!what's in a dress anyway. cheers to you mel!jerichohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13356148616111999076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-29541113857325648922008-07-19T21:49:00.000+10:002008-07-19T21:49:00.000+10:00Ito lang ang masasabi ko.NEVER judge a book by its...Ito lang ang masasabi ko.<BR/><BR/>NEVER judge a book by its cover!<BR/><BR/>Calling crossdressing a DISORDER makes me puke.<BR/><BR/>Sobrang nakakalungkot......https://www.blogger.com/profile/06939610365246933349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-15890493158193791202008-07-19T20:35:00.000+10:002008-07-19T20:35:00.000+10:00interesting...I'm actually thinking of making a li...interesting...<BR/><BR/>I'm actually thinking of making a list of people I'd like to meet as well. I think it's great to pick on the minds of people of different backgrounds... <BR/><BR/>interestinggillboardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11492159718868622401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-25095610332238875822008-07-19T19:54:00.000+10:002008-07-19T19:54:00.000+10:00I never liked cross dressers because I taught it w...I never liked cross dressers because I taught it was just irrational to dress that way. I call people like them with Gender Identity Disorder. But I think it's a hasty generalization. We can always ask them if their comfortable with what's between their legs. If they said no, then they have GID.<BR/><BR/>True. They make all the gays, homosexuals and bisexuals look bad just by acting inappropriately. It takes one rotten tomato to destroy the whole cart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-72547304394842782832008-07-19T19:17:00.000+10:002008-07-19T19:17:00.000+10:00I'm itching to have a day-long exposure with a Par...I'm itching to have a day-long exposure with a Parlorista so I can write about them. :).https://www.blogger.com/profile/12914651755857714903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-40663987814252684112008-07-19T18:08:00.000+10:002008-07-19T18:08:00.000+10:00hi.. lyk ur post.. i thought ud end up as lovers....hi.. lyk ur post.. i thought ud end up as lovers...hehehe but anyway, i appreciate that uv already accepted them..my bf or lets say girlfriend since she's a lesbian and is to be considered a crossdresser too...that's why i could relate to the topic..glaiglayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01314232613730056189noreply@blogger.com