tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post2520148052387628493..comments2024-02-25T17:53:46.030+11:00Comments on wandering commuter: when L camewanderingcommuterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-51350061535844511172012-01-11T09:56:04.297+11:002012-01-11T09:56:04.297+11:00It's a new year, dear Ewik. I think one of yo...It's a new year, dear Ewik. I think one of your resolutions should be that you write on here more often. Miss you!♥ N o v ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06176664910703289355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-81468625059685348462011-12-05T18:21:12.246+11:002011-12-05T18:21:12.246+11:00A bit of crying over what happened is good. But dw...A bit of crying over what happened is good. But dwelling on it, and not doing anything about it, is a different matter. I think, after all the crying is done, fighting fire with fire (or water, for that matter) should be the next best course. After all, the perceived consequences, be it probable or not, of fighting back is way better than both the emotional and physical torture that your friend may be experiencing now. ;pSethhttp://www.hesitantchanges.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-68938465520976319102011-12-01T11:14:54.405+11:002011-12-01T11:14:54.405+11:00kane,
yeap, i know. its been a while.
the situ...kane, <br /><br />yeap, i know. its been a while. <br /><br />the situation is indeed complex. <br /><br />when i wrote it i declined to state advice rather more of something to ponder. well, so far he is okay. struggling, i guess.wanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-76348264863250473462011-11-28T12:07:39.995+11:002011-11-28T12:07:39.995+11:00Sometimes we find ourselves in certain situations ...Sometimes we find ourselves in certain situations we want to get out of. There, we have no choice.<br /><br />After a while, though, we can and we do exercise our freedom. We choose to stay in that situation.<br /><br />I think your friend needs to be brave. He's allowing himself to be held hostage in exchange for the boyfriend keeping a secret. Perhaps the price he is paying for is too high? <br /><br />Who knows. These things, a man must decide on his own.<br /><br />Kane<br /><br />p.s. Hi Ewik =) Good to see (read) you again.Kanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13948473232058321828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-928911655533014002011-11-23T11:22:52.524+11:002011-11-23T11:22:52.524+11:00easier said than done, indeed.
harsh realitieseasier said than done, indeed.<br /><br />harsh realitieswanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-9958973146736142942011-11-23T08:01:54.377+11:002011-11-23T08:01:54.377+11:00It's so easy for people to say "L should ...It's so easy for people to say "L should do this, L should do that," but the reality is that unless you're in that situation, there is no telling how you would react or what action you yourself would take.<br /><br />The real tragedy is that there are people out there who purposefully abuse and dominate others just for their own selfish needs and deficiencies.♥ N o v ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06176664910703289355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-86401472248401081462011-11-22T18:49:49.600+11:002011-11-22T18:49:49.600+11:00Oh my god...one of the first bloggers...elder blog...Oh my god...one of the first bloggers...elder blogger...hahaha<br /><br />I miss you.wanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-14661348548529209652011-11-22T18:47:33.505+11:002011-11-22T18:47:33.505+11:00Mugen,perhaps.people can say its escapism and not ...Mugen,perhaps.people can say its escapism and not facing the problem.but if that well make him set free then be it. However there is more behind it than what i wrote...masyadong madami pa...wanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-26917631111010858872011-11-22T18:45:56.914+11:002011-11-22T18:45:56.914+11:00Hi nate,its alright...i guess thats the immediate ...Hi nate,its alright...i guess thats the immediate reaction to this story.perhaps having your line available whenever he needs it is the best thing i can do as of now...wanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-71237546878412349892011-11-22T17:49:07.753+11:002011-11-22T17:49:07.753+11:00Emotional blackmail! Hijacker siya! I feel for L....Emotional blackmail! Hijacker siya! I feel for L. I am an introvert as well, his reaching out to you is a big step already, I hope he finds the courage to break free from this evil person and find peace of mind as well.<br /><br />This is me wandering C, i wrote as bk (bulaangkatotohanan dati)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17458566382898150330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-52460347521065458612011-11-22T17:36:38.670+11:002011-11-22T17:36:38.670+11:00Sometimes, to disappear without a trace is the bes...Sometimes, to disappear without a trace is the best course of action. I may not be in his shoes, but once, I was very close to doing my suggestion just to liberate myself from someone I don't love anymore.<br /><br />May he find the strength to set himself free.Mugenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12219198460080059781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-12964444905301293972011-11-22T15:18:53.561+11:002011-11-22T15:18:53.561+11:00i can't help but cry.. i could feel L's pa...i can't help but cry.. i could feel L's pain.. i could feel his anxiousness.. i could feel his "yearning to break free"..<br /><br />i'm sorry this happened to him.. if i were in your shoes, i'd be lost for words too.. i really don't know what to say to him.. i'll prolly hug him..<br /><br />ok, OA na ang pag-iyak ko.. hais.. na-apektuhan ako..Natehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074923112086969367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-2284437638181204432011-11-22T14:05:24.976+11:002011-11-22T14:05:24.976+11:00victor saudad, he will leave in his time, i guess....victor saudad, he will leave in his time, i guess...<br /><br />thanks for dropping by.wandererhttp://wanderingcommuter.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-90457590620141172072011-11-22T13:57:50.335+11:002011-11-22T13:57:50.335+11:00lof, yeah. kahit saan anggulo ko tignan--- ang hir...lof, yeah. kahit saan anggulo ko tignan--- ang hirap!wandererhttp://wanderingcommuter.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-79837455967269532932011-11-22T13:56:35.701+11:002011-11-22T13:56:35.701+11:00red, its hard but i think L wants to solve it on h...red, its hard but i think L wants to solve it on his own. he wants to take credit for something he have done for himself, even just this one.wandererhttp://wanderingcommuter.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-10244432628813026102011-11-22T13:45:55.072+11:002011-11-22T13:45:55.072+11:00"When shall L leave?"
I hope he finds t..."When shall L leave?"<br /><br />I hope he finds the strength, and build the courage to get around this situation he's in. Strangers be strangers, but definitely he has a friend in here.Victor Saudadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03137129619666178427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-21189024732152399212011-11-22T13:18:57.544+11:002011-11-22T13:18:57.544+11:00the solutions to this problem are not simple, happ...the solutions to this problem are not simple, happy or painless.LoFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17790755800889443785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-11285171094269356362011-11-22T13:18:03.826+11:002011-11-22T13:18:03.826+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.LoFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17790755800889443785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-9421962557073199842011-11-22T13:15:49.810+11:002011-11-22T13:15:49.810+11:00I call these sort of people emotional vampires. Th...I call these sort of people emotional vampires. They will suck the life out of those unable to defend themselves. Troubling how audacious this guy is to coerce your friend into a faux-relationship for his selfish insecurity.<br /><br />Did you know that the French have no words for girlfriend or boyfriend? For them, if two people wishes to be together, then they are together; and when love between them has waned or left then they can just as easily leave each other, no strings, no painful break-up's. It's a matter of continually choosing to be with someone.<br /><br />I wish I could offer a more profound advice to your friend, but I don't. It seems this guy is hellbent on enforcing his unilateral definition of a relationship. All I can say is, he shouldn't let this guy blackmail him into submission, call him out on his bluff. If he intends to out your friend to his family, then threaten him back. I'm sure his family would take his word over this guy's. He is, after all, blood of their blood and flesh of their flesh.<br /><br />Emotional vampires feed on your fears. Show them you can fight back, and that you do not fear them, and they often will back away out of self-preservation.red the modhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12376633655401824493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-13027537741833240212011-11-22T12:41:40.990+11:002011-11-22T12:41:40.990+11:00chip, ang bigat bigat kaya sa loob. hindi ako maka...chip, ang bigat bigat kaya sa loob. hindi ako makapaniwalang mangyayari ito sa kakilala ko at higit sa lahat may taong kayang gumawa nito...wanderingcommuterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04870111584760550069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5477081438559630011.post-16076973932778623252011-11-22T12:33:47.386+11:002011-11-22T12:33:47.386+11:00:( Nakakagalit yung story niya. :( :( :(:( Nakakagalit yung story niya. :( :( :(Chiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00143044391501053871noreply@blogger.com